Monday, June 27, 2016

One Thing #4

Tuesday, June 14
Okay, time to "get back on the saddle" with this . . .
Our May 30 - June 4 goals were:
Jeanne - get laundry done
Louie - adjust bottom rack in oven (while it's cool)
These were pretty minor goals BUT I had meant to do laundry the previous week (and at the end of the school year, life is on fast-forward) so it felt really good to achieve that goal! I had clothes to pack for St. Cloud and I left Louie and Lou with sufficient clothing. (Of course, here I am on 6/14, doing laundry . . . but that's how it goes!)
Louie did his goal last night when I did a little nagging about it. Dude! I had only written it down for him because he kept mentioning it! Every time he preheated the oven, then opened the door to put something in, he commented that he needed to "fix" the thing in the bottom of the oven that had gotten out of place . . . but it was too hot to touch. So anyhow, those both got done.

Last week, I didn't write down new goals for us. As it turned out, my big one was staying cheerful as the Minnesota Quilters Volunteers Co-Chair with Louise. Success. Louie ended up doing some work in the garage and happily discovered the problem with the wiring in the four-wheeler (which has been a project goal for a looooooooong time). Success!

Now that we're practically to the half-way point in the week and I already have a page of goals, I think it will help my attitude to pick one attainable goal that will be completed before we go to the lake.

Jeanne - will wrap up her MQ Co-Chair responsibilities
Louie -

6/27/16
Excellent! I felt so fantastic getting all the MQ stuff done and dropping things off at the Bloomington house for Louise on 6/17. It was truly liberating (and time-consuming). Louie never set a specific goal for the week, but we did a LOT of stuff on his goal list up at the lake last week. His biggest one was to treat the siding on the cabin. Then when he realized he had forgotten to bring the sprayer AND the metal poles for the scaffolding, he set a goal of taking down the huge dead birch trees in the "front" yard. Well, he really, really, really wanted the siding treated, so we did it! With ladders and paintbrushes. I helped with the low parts. It felt so good to get it done - in two days - and move on with things. On Saturday, we (he) cut down the dead trees and I helped clear away the logs and branches. It was quite an ordeal and felt incredibly good to go swimming when we were done.

For June 27 - July 2, we set new goals.
Louie - mow lawn and find water filtration system for Morgan (for BWCA).
Jeanne - work on estate to-do list (from lawyer)

I really struggled yesterday and today with this. It feels so very good to finally really "be" on summer vacation but I'm almost overwhelmed by possibilities and all I'd like to get done! I spent some time during my devotions this morning just seeking God's will. I don't want to fall back into my lists and projects and checking things off . . . there won't be enough time in my life to "do" all the things I think I should or could do.

I went back to the purpose of my starting this "one thing" deal . . . and I recognize that I am someone who can easily get lost in the "stuff" of life. I tend to focus on my failures and short-comings. The reason I pick "one thing" to get done in a week is so that I can enjoy the sense of accomplishment and be grateful that I was able to achieve something concrete. It sounds almost silly to type that, but it's honest. I will do many more things this week (I've already got my first load of laundry in for the week) but it helps me to see the little sign in the entryway with the "one thing" that I hope to accomplish over the course of the week. I'm not sure how long I'll be doing this experiment, but it's also fun to share it with Louie. We both talk about lots of ideas and projects, but it's nice to have a focus. (And I NEED to work on estate stuff - I've been ignoring it for too long.)

Wednesday, June 1, 2016

One Thing #3

For the week of May 9-14, we had these goals:
Jeanne - send MQ volunteer assignment emails
Louie - NO! I didn't get last week's "one thing" done . . .

So right now, it's May 14th and I've not gotten mine done. I can't really email people's assignments without having the spreadsheet filled in. So that's what I've been working on - getting the info and filling it in. I'm also struggling to stay focused on this one task because it seems so huge and complicated.

That's another lesson with this experiment - pick one thing you know you can DO. If it's too huge, break it down and figure out which *piece* of it should be next. I still like this experiment and will continue it. This post, however, will remain a draft for at least another week.

For May 16-21, I would like to:
Louie - sharpen the chainsaw blade and start treating the outlet covers
Jeanne - finish binding on Unity

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I just finished the binding on the quilt! I didn't work on it very many evenings this past week. Work has been all-consuming and exhausting. Two more weeks in this school year! But tonight I finished off the binding and it feels *so* good. Here's what's left:
- bury the loose threads from the long-arm quilting (many bobbin issues)
- add a label
- attach a hanging sleeve for the show / I've entered it in the non-judged exhibit

Louie finished his two things right away. He sharpened the chain saw chain right away on Monday and got stain on the outlet covers. He hasn't poly-ed them yet, but has this week to do it.

For May 23-28, I would like to:
Jeanne - Make a rough draft of my dad's estate "inventory" that I need to provide to the lawyer for the next steps in probate.
Louie - ??? He snapped at me when I asked him and now he's asleep on the sofa. He mentioned sewing up the jib sail, but said it might not happen this week.

To be continued . . . 

I did NOT even START the inventory. This past week flew and I chose to try to "check out" at the lake this weekend. I'll post one more week here and then start a new entry. The end of the school year is a really tough time for me. The "too much to do and not enough time" bowls me over.

For May 31 to June 4:
Jeanne would like to get her laundry done.

Louie would like to adjust the stove's bottom burner rack when the oven is cool. (We only think of it when we're using the oven and it's too hot to touch . . . )