Focus on the Positive #12

Honestly, I'm just too lazy to take a photo of my white board and add it to this entry . . .

For March 18-24: "Bday gift to Angela!"
I took her to lunch on March 22 (her birthday was the next day, but Louie and I went up to the lake for a long weekend). It was very nice to visit with her and she liked her gift, even though Louie said it needed something "fun" instead of just pragmatic stuff.

For March 25-31: "Wash fabric for Morgan and Angela wedding quilt."
Even though they got married a year and a half ago, I do not spend enough time in my studio! (It's all the puppy's fault.) I was hesitant to do this, because I dislike ironing and there are several yards of fabric! Yesterday (April 3) I finally washed, dried, and carefully folded it all! I may have a One Thing goal of ironing it sometime soon. . . . I know I got this thing done later than planned, but I did spend time last week working on the basement bathroom ceiling.

It is much easier to focus on positives these days. Quitting my job has been tremendous for reducing my stress level and helping me keep a smile on my face. I am so blessed!

One Thing #5 (Focus on the Positive)

So I forgot that the week of June 20-25 when we were up at the lake, I had made a goal of "Jeanne will read her book club book." Yep. Did that. And read an additional seven books . . . and did jigsaw puzzles . . . and ate a lot . . . and helped Louie with his goals (treating the wood siding on the cabin and cutting down the dead birch trees). Woohoo!

For the week of June 27 - July 2, I learned that I should set a specific, concrete goal! (Hello, have you not spent decades in education doing SMART goals with kids?) My "Jeanne will work on the estate to-do list" was good in that I kept thinking "what do I need to do next" over and over and over. It was bad in that I couldn't have that sense of accomplishment. "Done!" never happened . . . and won't until that estate to-do list is totally done some time in 2017. So, yeah. I got work done on the estate to-do list, but am going to stick with specific goals from now on! (But not necessarily SMART - Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic, Time-bound . . . . )

Louie's goal for that same week was two-fold: "Louie will mow the lawn and find the water filtration system for Morgan." He got the lawn mowed and Wednesday evening, he located the water filtration system in his office. I had a lunch date with Morgan on Thursday, so it became a bit of a deadline issue. We had looked and looked in multiple places, so Louie said he is going to keep it with the Duluth packs in the future (since those are both BWCA-specific items for us).

For July 4-9, Jeanne will clean and paint the door trim by the front door. Louie has not yet set a One Thing goal for this week. These entries will probably read in a disjointed manner, since I have several different dates that I'm typing each one. If verb tenses seem illogical (past, present, and future mushed together) . . . that's why. I can either "publish" more often, or include the date when I'm actually writing above each section . . . why can't I be a normal blogger like others on this planet?

I believe I typed the above on 7/3/16, but I don't really know. Now it is 7/12/16 and after I type below, I'll post it. Still contemplating the best way to do these entries . . .

Last week (July 4-9), I scrubbed the front door area (which made it look a LOT better!) and got out supplies for painting. Seriously, I need to clean things more often. That alone improved the front door area appearance. Today (7/12), I finally painted it! I'm not super good at painting, but I tried to be careful. I cleaned up my stuff. I put up a "wet paint" sign, since I used an outdoor oil-based paint. The real test will be when Louie comes home and examines it . . .

He didn't set a goal for last week, but has been working on the four-wheeler quite a bit. He got it running last night and has the next three or four "to-do" items queued up. I think he's hoping to bring it to the lake the next time we go.

For me, my July 11-16 goal will be to clean up the window by the front door. I don't want to scrub it while I have wet paint to bump into. I don't know that I'll be more expansive than that. As usual, there are lots of other things going on (wedding gift for Olivia and Sam, meeting with Ryan while he's in town, laundry, etc.).

Life is good, and it certainly helps to celebrate the positive things in life rather than lamenting the many things that don't happen. I'm looking forward to more conversations with Louie about our goals and making strides on things we truly want to accomplish.